Do you wonder if that guy you like has romantic feelings for you? Are you afraid to ask him out but there are times when you are sure that he likes you. At other times, you're just not sure if he's interested in you. How can you know for sure if a man is attracted to you? What are some of the signs that the man you are dreaming about has romantic thoughts about you?
While many men can play their cards close to the vest, there are ways that you can tell if he likes you. You see, men are brought up to hide their emotions and it's often thought that men shouldn't show their feelings. Even if the man you're interested in isn't willing to speak his mind or tell you how he feels, his emotions will be apparent in his body language. No matter how much he might try to hide his true feelings, his body will tell the truth no matter how hard he might try to deny his feelings for you.
Has the guy you're interested in ever touched you? Have you noticed that sometimes when he's talking with you that he will gently touch your arm or even poke you, as if joking? Have you ever felt him touch your back when he holds a door open for you? Is it as if he has a need to touch you when you're near? All of these are a good sign that he is attracted to you. He feels a connection with you and although he might not be able to hug you or kiss you at this moment in time, touching you is a non-verbal show of affection that is safe for him to use to express his desire for you.
While there are certain cultures and families that are more accepting of touching than others, a man's touch never lies. If he reaches out and touches you when you are near it very well could be that he is attracted to you and he feels comfortable with you. Of course, if you notice that he touches everybody then this could be his nature or how he was brought up. Either way, this is a good sign and you should reciprocate and touch him from time to time to build rapport and intimacy.
Take notice of how he stands when he is talking to you. Is he facing you? Does his chest face towards you or do his feet point in your direction. A man's feet point toward what he wants so if his feet are pointing towards you then you are what he wants. If his chest is pointing towards you then he is open with you and he feels safe with you. He's not hiding anything and he is attracted to you.
Now, there are men who might not face you directly when talking to you. It could be that the man that you are attracted to was hurt in a past relationship so he's a little hesitant to be completely open at first. It's also a little difficult to always face someone when you're talking if you're sitting on a couch or at a bar. It's also awkward to not face someone when you're eating dinner with them and they're directly across the table from you. Use your own judgement and test it out sometime when he has the option of turning away or facing you directly. If he faces you directly with his feet pointing towards you then you know that there's a very good chance that he's attracted to you.
Look at his eyes the next time you talk in person. Do his eyes sparkle and does he look you in the eye? Something strange happens when a man is falling in love and when he is talking to a woman that he finds attractive his eyes will sparkle. He will smile a genuine smile that causes his eyes to almost smile too. This sign that he is attracted to you can't be controlled and can't be denied by any man so check out his eyes the next time you speak to him.
You might think that if he looks down or appears to avoid eye contact with you that your relationship is done for. The opposite might be true, actually. Shy guys and men who have been hurt in a relationship are often cautious about revealing their feelings. They will sometimes look away or look down as a sign of submission when they come face to face with a woman that they find attractive. Don't worry though, as you grow closer to each other he will begin to trust you and you'll get to see those sparkling eyes all you want.
If you notice any of these signs then there is a very good chance that the man that you're interested in does have feelings for you. Take notice and do your best not to scare him off. Many men are poor at understanding and communicating their emotions. Allow his body language to tell you everything that you need to know and move forward without a word. Many of the best men are shy and awkward so if you are interested in him, let his body do all the talking for now. There will be plenty of time in the future for him to tell you how he truly feels once his emotions overcome his instincts not to show his feelings.
While many men can play their cards close to the vest, there are ways that you can tell if he likes you. You see, men are brought up to hide their emotions and it's often thought that men shouldn't show their feelings. Even if the man you're interested in isn't willing to speak his mind or tell you how he feels, his emotions will be apparent in his body language. No matter how much he might try to hide his true feelings, his body will tell the truth no matter how hard he might try to deny his feelings for you.
Has the guy you're interested in ever touched you? Have you noticed that sometimes when he's talking with you that he will gently touch your arm or even poke you, as if joking? Have you ever felt him touch your back when he holds a door open for you? Is it as if he has a need to touch you when you're near? All of these are a good sign that he is attracted to you. He feels a connection with you and although he might not be able to hug you or kiss you at this moment in time, touching you is a non-verbal show of affection that is safe for him to use to express his desire for you.
While there are certain cultures and families that are more accepting of touching than others, a man's touch never lies. If he reaches out and touches you when you are near it very well could be that he is attracted to you and he feels comfortable with you. Of course, if you notice that he touches everybody then this could be his nature or how he was brought up. Either way, this is a good sign and you should reciprocate and touch him from time to time to build rapport and intimacy.
Take notice of how he stands when he is talking to you. Is he facing you? Does his chest face towards you or do his feet point in your direction. A man's feet point toward what he wants so if his feet are pointing towards you then you are what he wants. If his chest is pointing towards you then he is open with you and he feels safe with you. He's not hiding anything and he is attracted to you.
Now, there are men who might not face you directly when talking to you. It could be that the man that you are attracted to was hurt in a past relationship so he's a little hesitant to be completely open at first. It's also a little difficult to always face someone when you're talking if you're sitting on a couch or at a bar. It's also awkward to not face someone when you're eating dinner with them and they're directly across the table from you. Use your own judgement and test it out sometime when he has the option of turning away or facing you directly. If he faces you directly with his feet pointing towards you then you know that there's a very good chance that he's attracted to you.
Look at his eyes the next time you talk in person. Do his eyes sparkle and does he look you in the eye? Something strange happens when a man is falling in love and when he is talking to a woman that he finds attractive his eyes will sparkle. He will smile a genuine smile that causes his eyes to almost smile too. This sign that he is attracted to you can't be controlled and can't be denied by any man so check out his eyes the next time you speak to him.
You might think that if he looks down or appears to avoid eye contact with you that your relationship is done for. The opposite might be true, actually. Shy guys and men who have been hurt in a relationship are often cautious about revealing their feelings. They will sometimes look away or look down as a sign of submission when they come face to face with a woman that they find attractive. Don't worry though, as you grow closer to each other he will begin to trust you and you'll get to see those sparkling eyes all you want.
If you notice any of these signs then there is a very good chance that the man that you're interested in does have feelings for you. Take notice and do your best not to scare him off. Many men are poor at understanding and communicating their emotions. Allow his body language to tell you everything that you need to know and move forward without a word. Many of the best men are shy and awkward so if you are interested in him, let his body do all the talking for now. There will be plenty of time in the future for him to tell you how he truly feels once his emotions overcome his instincts not to show his feelings.
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