Facts About Online Dating Websites For Muslims

By Laura Kelly


Most couples today started their relationship by dating. Some time back, it was a norm for parents to find spouses for their children. Wives of kings and princes were picked by themselves from parades which were held exclusively for this purpose. In other civilizations women were pitted against each other and the winner got the man in question. Deciding competitions included were traditional among other series of contests. Here are facts regarding online dating websites for Muslims.

Women are forbidden from looking for husbands as dictated by most religions around the world. Society finds offence in a woman asking a man out as it expects the opposite to be happening. Religion practiced in India demands that a woman lists down the qualities of a man they would be interested in. The list is then handed over to their parents who in turn have to find a man with those qualities for their daughter. Once potential husbands have been identified their pictures are taken to the girl to choose the would be husband.

Currently with advancement of technology and introduction of the westernization culture things have really changed. Women can now choose their own husbands. They can also date men before marrying them unlike before where they had to get married to total strangers. They can also ask men out if they feel attracted to them.

Parents have no say when it comes to dating and marriage these days. This has resulted to so many negative factors accompanying this types of relationships. Such negative factors include relationships not leading to marriages. Since parents are not in involved respect between the parties involved tend to go down hence their relationship will never lead to marriage resulting to heartbreaks, depression which can lead to suicide.

Online dating is one of platforms that developed due to advanced technology. It was a platform meant for women and men to meet online and socialize, develop relationships that could possibly lead to marriage. A typical site is like a chat room which contains people of different backgrounds, sizes ages among others all looking for partners either life partners or just dating ones.

This sites have really increased in numbers and studies indicate that over forty million people have registered in the recent years. People have different reasons for adopting this kind of dating, some of these reasons include they are simply shy. Many people have low self-esteem maybe due to their appearance are afraid to go out and meet people in person. So they start doing it online before gaining courage to finally meet up with the other person.

To other people it is a way of relieving stress as it feels good sharing a problem with a stranger. To such people seeking the help of a stranger makes them feel better besides talking. The good side with online dating is that it has helped people find marriage partners. They have also helped wade off suicidal feelings among some of the users.

The danger of meeting sociopaths like murderers and rapists online is real. Users of such sites are advised against trusting strangers as bad people may pose as good partners. When scheduling a first meeting with a stranger due caution must be taken. The meeting must take place in public places.




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