Factors That Influence The Success Of A Love Relationship

By Alex D White


Love may be the only thing that has been around for as long as humans have. Every human being usually longs for a relationship which makes them happy. Almost everyone has at some point or another tried to be in a love relationship and was either successful or not. No matter who you are, you would need to be aware of some simple tips that will enable you to have a successful relationship.

When you go into a relationship with high hopes and expectation only for them not to materialize you might feel let down. This is the number one factor that influences the success or failure of a relationship. Contextualize your expectations into reality. Do not expect a Romeo and Julie kind of relationship. Remember even they had problems that led to both their deaths.

If you are poor at communicating while in a relationship, possibilities are that the relationship will fail. Relationships are not like company entities that have fully funded communication departments; relationships are more personal. This means in a love relationship, communication is on a very personal level. Communicate your feelings, opinions and emotions with your partner. Remember communication is not a shouting match.

One of the major factors that contribute to the success of a relationship is spending ample time together doing activities that you both enjoy. With the hectic schedules that most people have today, this becomes harder. However, failure to do this creates a lot of disconnect in the relationship and may cause your partner to feel like they are no longer part of your life. Go out for a picnic or a movie together at least thrice per month.

Learn to trust; being paranoid and suspicious of your better half all the time is bound to put a permanent strain on any relationship. Some people do cheat, but this is mainly because there is a deficiency in the relationship. Trust that the other person is just as human as you are and is afraid of hurt. Trust that they would never do anything that would inflict pain on you. You will find it easier to trust them when you are not always worried that they are cheating.

Do not let yourself be selfish by doing that which you feel is the best for you. Sometimes, do what you believe is the best for them. This will make your partner to trust you. This will lead to a good and loving relationship as trust is the foundation of any good relationship.

Be affectionate is also very important. Affection could be expressed in a variety of ways. Unlike popular belief, most people do not consider costly gifts as a sign of love. Buy her some flowers on the way home. You do not have to wait for Valentine to take her out. Buy her some chocolate or flowers every chance you receive or buy him a tie or new shirt occasionally.

Keeping secrets is also a reason that may influence the success of a relationship. Sharing something intimate with your partner gives them the felling of inclusion in your life. This aspect goes hand in hand with communication. Tell your partner a few things about yourself or life that only you are aware of. You will be amazed by the effect this will have on your overall relationship success.




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